The Healing Codes - How to Build the Success Foundation
By Jerry Graham
Core Beliefs by Six
Here’s something to think about: every human being has a stimulus response programming system that is the basis for his reactions to what goes on around him. During the first six years of life, we form core beliefs about danger and safety. We do, of course, add layers of new information to those beliefs as we mature, but what if the foundation itself is flawed?
If you’ve ever been in an area during a landslide, you might see houses clinging to the side of a hill, barely supported by their foundations. That’s what a shaky core belief system looks like in a person’s life. For example: you walk into a social situation and feel terrified, although no one there is behaving threateningly. You’ve just reacted to a faulty stimulus response system. Your response to the circumstance is based on false beliefs.
Stress Results from Faulty Core Beliefs
That false programming, deep in our hearts, impacts our rational belief system to the point many of us can feel physically threatened by a harmless audience. Those lies about what is real are constantly reactivated by new situations. Most of us, though, can’t articulate that, so we rationalize by saying we don’t have a certain talent, or that we aren’t feeling well. The truth is that we don’t feel well because a lie in our hearts is making us behave irrationally!
Why is this foundation so powerful? According to Dr. Alex Loyd, who has spent years reviewing scientific research while formulating The Healing Codes, if the brain senses fear, it initiates the stress response throughout the body. If the brain senses love, without fear, it initiates the “Success Response”. He believes that physiological Success Response, including the release of oxytocin into the body, opens the door to success, happiness, health, and better relationships.
Fear Not!
If he’s correct, the solution, then, is to have strong foundational beliefs that are not based upon fear. It’s no coincidence that in the Bible we find the phrase “fear not” 365 times! The Biblical response to life’s stresses, whether financial, relational, or any other perceived threat, is that fear isn’t necessary. In combination with the current scientific data on the impact of fear on our bodies, we begin to understand the benefit in pursuing that mindset!
If fear can be defined as a programmed reaction to real or perceived pain, then anger, is what occurs when the thing we feared actually happens. If we’re spending our days imagining bad things happening, and becoming angry about it, there’s a faulty image in our hearts about what is real.
Down the Rabbit Hole We Go
Let’s go a little further. Sadness occurs when the action of our anger doesn’t change our negative circumstances. We move into shame when we decide it’s our fault that fear, anger, and sadness have come into our lives. What a painful, negative cycle — and it all starts with a false belief about our circumstances.
How to know if you’re caught in this cycle? If you live in a state of unease, rather than peace, your life is probably based on a faulty set of foundational beliefs. So, what’s the cure? First, we learn to tell ourselves the truth about the circumstances we’re in. We say things like, “When I step up to the podium, no one is going to physically attack me.”
Before we can speak rational truth into our emotions, though, we must cure the deep, hidden lies that live in our hearts. Once we recognize, and begin to heal those faulty beliefs, we are free to build a foundation of love and truth. When that happens, the physical stress response that often brings about failure is interrupted and we begin to experience true success.
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From Jerry Graham - aka DocJerry & the other half of The Coaching Pair
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